friendship

i was talking to a friend the other day and we discussed about friendship. it was interesting because i’ve had these thoughts in my head for a while and it was nice being able to talk to someone else about, especially someone who agreed with me muahaha. i guess back in high school i always felt that if i could find friends that i could talk “deep” about, especially about personal stuff, then that person is someone i can be close friends with and someone i can confide in, basically someone i “click” with. funny thing how now i’ve realized how different that is? as fellow Christian friends, there’s always that deeper level to connect on, there’s always that common ground of spirituality to be shared, yet the so called “surfacey” stuff is often neglected. and that is also something that makes up a significant part of a friendship. you may know a person well in terms of their relationship with God, their struggles, lessons, blessings, praises, and don’t get me wrong, those are definitely the most important aspects to a Christian, yet God also gave us our unique character and life story.

what happened to sitting around talking about nothing, everything, anything for hours? what was it like growing up? what were your parents like? what were your childhood fears? remmeber those high school curfews? remember those growing up days? etc…

just a few thoughts. i wish i could express myself better in words. oh well.